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Showing posts with label What Do We Teach Our Children To Pray For?. Show all posts
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Saturday, April 10, 2010

When God Shows His Hand

photo by The US Army

A church friend of ours, deployed for his second tour of duty in Iraq, is home finishing up a fifteen-day furlough. He returns tomorrow, but we got to spend a little bit of time with him and his fiancée over lunch today. It was a relaxed affair over sandwiches, tortilla chips and salsa as we got caught up and shared stories and news.

Our family comes together in prayer almost every day over Chris, and we told him we’d continue doing so, asking God to place a bubble of protection over both him and his unit. My husband even joked that the other soldiers had better snuggle up real close to him to take full advantage of that protection.

I ran into Chris’ dad at church a couple of Sundays ago and shared how glad I was that Chris had been located in a fairly safe area of Iraq, since in all our Skype and Facebook conversations he hadn’t mentioned any danger. His dad, a veteran of Vietnam, quickly put things into perspective for me.

“That he’s willing to tell us about.”

During our get together Chris substantiated his dad’s statement. One day recently, before leaving on his furlough, while he was on Skype with his dad and fiancée, Chris heard and felt some strange noises.

THUD! THUD! THUD! THUD!

He wondered aloud what they were, and within a few minutes there came a knock on his barracks door. Setting his laptop down on his bunk to answer it, his dad and fiancée could see the whole thing play out through the webcam mounted on his computer. Chris’ demeanor noticeably changed as he received some kind of notification from the person at the door. He then quickly excused himself from his dad and fiancée and shut his computer off.

Four Iraqi missiles had landed in the middle of his camp. None of them had exploded. Personnel were being evacuated so the EOD unit could come in, disarm and safely remove them. Chris had not been willing to share that bit of news at the time, for obvious reasons.

Prayer is a powerful thing, but even more powerful is seeing God’s divine intervention play out in such a palpable way. As our children sat around the table listening to Chris share his story, there were knowing looks exchanged among us. Our prayers had been effective, God had been faithful. It was a potent lesson.

Pray with your children, but more importantly, share when God has responded. Watch your children’s faith grow as they see the magnificent omnipotence of God’s hand at work.

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Thursday, April 3, 2008

What Do We Teach Our Children To Pray For? Part 3 of 3

I will never forget the day at church when a young girl came running up to me. She was so excited I thought her smile would erupt right off of her face. She shared with me an incredible story of God’s wonderful grace in her life and how He had answered prayer.

A tiny bird routinely sat outside her bedroom window and sang to her everyday. She became totally enamored with the little thing, and a thought began developing in her heart. Could she get the bird to come to her and eat from her hand? She took it to the Lord and asked Him if He would calm the tiny creature, assuring it she meant it no harm and only wanted to feed it.

Everyday for weeks, this young girl would steal outside with seed in her hand, seating herself far enough away as to not frighten the bird, but inching closer and closer as the days went by. Finally she was close enough that she could see the banding on the bird’s feathers. She held out her hand with the seed, but it ignored her gift. More days went by without the bird coming to her, but she continued praying that the Lord would bring it to her hand and it would eat from it.

And one day she was rewarded for her effort. Not only did it hop into her hand, the bird allowed her to gently stroke it with her finger. If you can only imagine how excitement bubbled with her words as she told me her story. What a precious gift this young girl’s parents gave her. They taught her the true reason for praying, the ultimate purpose in coming before God in petition.

None other than to glorify Him. Teach your children this.

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Oftentimes our prayers reflect more of a gimme, gimme, gimme attitude. Lord, gimme strength. Lord, gimme peace. Lord, gimme joy. Lord, gimme patience. Or they reflect some red flag we’ve thrown up. Lord, I need help. Lord, I can’t do this on my own. Lord, if this child doesn’t stop whining I’m going to bust a blood vessel.

Is that how we want our child coming to us all the time? Mommy, sissy won’t play with me. Daddy, I can’t tie my shoe. Mom, can I go to the dance? Dad, can I have the car? If all we ever got from our children were requests for our interceding, wouldn’t we feel a bit used after awhile?
While it’s our great pleasure to be able to help our child, there is nothing like receiving a genuine, unsolicited “thank you” or “I love you” from him. Those are very precious moments that our child may not remember, but we store up for eternity. I don’t want to presuppose God, but I can’t imagine Him thinking differently.

Spend deliberate time helping your child to find things to be thankful to God for. You may be surprised to discover this is difficult for your child to do. Children are very concrete thinkers well into their teens and tend not to see beyond their immediate environment. Once they’ve listed the trees, the sky and the dog, they may be hard pressed to come up with anything else.

Open their eyes and their hearts to the world around them and in all the ways God has provided for them. Don’t forget to tell them to be thankful for their parents and any siblings they have, too. Teaching them to be thankful and praising in their prayers will help them know that their Lord is worthy and draw them away from treating Him like a genie who grants wishes.

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photo by ccarlstead

I remember as a baby Christian just how immature some of my prayers were. “Lord, help me beat this traffic light. Yes, praise God!” I treated Him more like a magical genie than the Creator of the universe who sacrificed his beloved Son for my salvation. Fortunately for me and many unsuspecting drivers out there, I eventually learned it was better to pray for patience, integrity and self-discipline than it was for traffic to go my way.

As a youngster in Christ the focus of my prayers was toward self-gratification and perhaps even due to a touch of skepticism - Lord, if you help me through this I’ll know you’re here. But praying is an act of worship, and it is in this attitude that we want to teach our children about how to pray.

Not to get gifts, but to be thankful for what he receives.
Not to pass the test, but to be the kind of student God wants him to be.
Not to be popular, but to be a person of godly character.
Not to receive accolades, but to strive for excellence in what he does.

These are not natural outlooks for our children to have (nor for us, for that matter). We approach these issues by engaging in discussion with our children. Perhaps you know that your child has a test in school coming up in an area that is not his best subject. You ask him if he’s ready. He’s not sure, he says. You know how nervous he gets while taking a test. And he doesn’t think the teacher likes him, either.

What a perfect opportunity for teaching him to turn it over to God, not so he can pass the test but to ask for calmness and a focus to help him do his best. In that he is striving to be more like Jesus, living a life pleasing to his Lord. When he realizes he was calmer for this test than any he’s ever been through, then help him to thank God for hearing his prayer. You’ll have taken a step to take his focus off of gratifying himself through prayer, and helped him put it where it belongs - on pleasing God.
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